The gifted violinist Tiffany Moore, who has almost twenty years of experience, recently told a moving account of facing down a bully from her early years.
Tiffany received an unexpected request from the woman who had formerly harassed her for her passion of music: she wanted Tiffany to perform at her wedding at no cost to Tiffany.
Her former bully started off his message with a phony smile: “Hey, girl! It has been indefinitely,” she wrote. “I am getting married in October, and I would love for you to play the violin at my wedding.” In addition to being the ideal present, you may utilize the images and videos to expand your performance portfolio. Win-win!
With 19 years of experience in the wedding industry, Tiffany is an experienced expert who didn’t need to create a portfolio. Her background includes composing, vocal coaching, and teaching a variety of instruments. The Knot, a renowned marketplace for wedding vendors, has honored her on several occasions.
Tiffany gave a straightforward and solid reply. She brought up their past and the importance of her services to her ex-bully. “Hey there. 1. It’s quite audacious of you to think that I would provide you with a $2,500 service. 2. Because I was in [the] symphony in middle school, you tormented me nonstop. 3. Assemble my portfolio? You might not be aware, but I’ve received recognition from Wedding Wire and The Knot for six years running,” she added. My “portfolio” starts at twelve years old. I have 19 years of experience in the wedding industry.
The prospective bride took Tiffany’s statement poorly, referring to her services as “overpriced” and requesting a special reduction. She even made an attempt to win Tiffany over by claiming that she only wanted to be friends and move on from the past. Tiffany remained unmoved. “Thanks, I already have buddies. She answered, “I don’t have time to indulge your ignorance. She underlined that clients who respect her professionalism and competence choose her services as a luxury.
The bride continued, offering $1,000 despite Tiffany’s obvious rejection and claiming that Tiffany would receive significant publicity at her wedding. Tiffany politely suggested that the bride charge her 300 guests $5 for entertainment in order to defray the cost, but she declined once more. “I wish I could, but I don’t want to,” is a quote from Phoebe Buffay that she used to wrap up.
The bride had a terrible answer. “What the heck, b**ch, who’s the mean chick now? Go whine about being too greedy and not being able to pay your expenses. You suck and aren’t even worth it, to boot!
Tiffany shot back with equal acerbity. “Aww, I’m so sad,” she wrote. “But I’m out of tissues, so I’ll have to use the gratuity I received this weekend from my clients to wipe my tears.”
On social media, the exchange went viral very fast, with many people praising Tiffany for advocating for herself. Why do people think that in order for artists to get noticed, they must donate their works? It is not logical. It’s valuable when you commit yourself to mastering something you’ve learned. “Exposure does not cover expenses,” a supporter remarked.
Tiffany sent an update, stating that after viewing the screenshots on the internet, her previous attacker had threatened to take legal action. Since Tiffany had never stated the woman’s name, she wasn’t concerned.
Tiffany said on her Instagram stories, “It’s obvious that 7 million of you are concerned about the bullying situation.” “I appreciate your nice words and your support. When an individual confronts a bully, we all feel empowered.
